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The hottest gay sex toys for men

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The hottest gay sex toys for men

The hottest gay sex toys for men

Get better acquainted with all the sexy pleasure products gay men should know about. 


What are gay male sex toys? 

They’re sex toys that appeal more to gay men than straight men. For instance, a queer man might be more likely to buy a stroker that resembles a man’s butt rather than a vulva. They might make different choices based on whether they're a top or a bottom. 

Shopping for sex toys can be challenging for gay men who are new to it or want products that meet their specific desires. Although lots of gender-neutral options exist, there are still a bevy of Fleshlights and pocket pussies catering to cis-het men. So what are adult toys for gay men and where can one find one, exactly? 

From prostate play devices and dildos to realistic male sex toys for gay men, there’s a wealth of gay sexy and orgasm-inducing choices available online to help satisfy your needs.

Sex toys for queer penis owners still aren’t as mainstream as toys for women. Still,  they’ve skyrocketed in popularity. Here’s everything you should know and the best gay male sex toys to help get you off. 

Things to be wary of when using a male gay sex toy 


Be careful with cock rings

Avoid an ER visit from a stuck cock ring and use one correctly. Silicone, leather, and other flexible materials are ideal. Plastic and metal are more rigid and can get stuck.

This will lead to pain and not the pleasurable kind! Remember to lube up beforehand, no matter what kind of ring you use. 

Use lube, no matter what

Friction with male sex toys is common, especially for strokers and rings. If you’re receiving anal penetration from a toy like a dildo or butt plug, remember that the anus doesn’t lubricate itself, so lots of glide is a must! Stick to a water-based lube if you’re using silicone toys. 

Clean your toys

Things can get messy with adult toys for gay men, and these products aren’t as straightforward to clean as vibrators.

If you ejaculate in a stroker, silicone butt, or anything with an orifice, wash it out thoroughly with warm soap and water. Air dry it afterward. You can even turn some inside out or utilize built-in drying racks. Not only will this keep things hygienic, but it will ensure that your toys last as long as possible.

How to choose the best gay sex toys

Sex toys for gay couples

You can integrate butt plugs, manual strokers and cock rings into play with a partner. Two bottoms may want to consider a double-ended dildo for simultaneous fun.

Sex toys for solo play

Use cock rings for masturbation to make sessions longer and harder. Prostate massagers can give you a p-spot orgasm, while strokers are a classic choice if you’re craving penetration. You can use butt plugs on their own or with strokers.

Realistic male sex toys

What's the best male sex toy for gay guys who want a toy that feels just like the real thing? A realistic stroker. Oral sex toys for men look like mouths and simulate oral sex. Other strokers look like bums to simulate the feeling of anal.

Interactive male sex toys

Take your sex life into the future with VR sex toys. These high-tech toys make the experience more interactive than ever. Kiiroo toys are compatible with a matching mobile app that combines interactive adult content with high-quality sex toys. 

Foreplay with erotic games

This gay male sex toy can be included in foreplay and paired with toys to explore your deepest desires. Sexy instructions will encourage experimentation and set the mood. This sex toy for gay couples is an add-on that will make any night so much hotter. 

Gay AF Sex Dice - Gay Men's Edition

Gay AF Sex Dice - Gay Men's Edition  

Strokers for solo pleasure

At 45% off, this high-tech stroker with all the bells and whistles is a steal. Dubbed the male rose sex toy, The One Suction Stroker sucks and vibrates with 15 modes to get you going. The brand also has an open-ended stroker that’s more compact for easier clean-up and more options for partnered play.

The One Suction Stroker

The One Suction Stroker - 40% OFF

 

If you’re not into the realistic or anatomically correct look, this powerful stroker is one of the best gay sex toys. It features three unique textures within a plush tunnel, warms to the touch, and stimulates like nothing else. Elevate an average handjob to a solo sesh with a more explosive finish.

Apollo Power Stroker

Apollo Power Stroker - 23% OFF

 

Some strokers work solely based on suction and vibration alone. While this male sex toy offers that, it also has a flickering tongue that’ll make your eyes roll back in your head. It’s also waterproof, making it perfect for bath or shower action.

Enhancer Ultimate Blowjob

Enhancer Ultimate Blowjob

 

Ever wish you could combine the feeling of a blowjob and a handjob in one go? Thanks to the magic of The One Rotating Stroker, you can. Not only does it warm up and vibrate, but it simultaneously rotates and thrusts for a toe-curling sensation that will satisfy all your deep-throat fantasies.

The One Rotating Stroker

The One Rotating Stroker

 

Dildos to get dirty with

Complete with veins and all the right textures, this is a budget-friendly realistic dildo that’s perfect for partnered or solo play. It’s 7 inches long, making it the Goldilocks of dildos. Not too big and not too small! 

The One Realistic Dildo

The One Realistic Dildo - 40% OFF

 

Self-professed size kings will love this 13.5-inch dual-density dildo. Molded directly from the famous porn star Dredd, it has a curved shape, and the suction cup base allows you to get bouncy with some hands-free play.

Signature Cocks Dredd

Signature Cocks Dredd

 

Two bottoms? No problem! Receive mutual pleasure at the same time with a silicone double-ended dildo. Just add lube and indulge in a steamy shared moment. This option is available in non-realistic colours.  

Colours - Double Pleasures

Colours - Double Pleasures Dildo

 

Anton Harden is one of the most popular porn stars out there. You can enjoy all your fantasies with the 'Blacked' performer thanks to this 11-inch replica dildo which is designed with a soft exterior and firm core. 

Signature Cocks - Anton Harden - 11" ULTRASKYN Cock with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup

Signature Cocks - Anton Harden - 11" ULTRASKYN Cock with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup


Anal sex toys for gay men

This is one of the best gay male sex toys for p-play lovers. It has a curved shape that’ll be sure to hit *that* spot and make your prostate sing. The massager is sleek, powerful, and waterproof, with a total of 10 settings. A must-have for fans of prostate play.

Anal Adventures Platinum - Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager 04

Anal Adventures Platinum - Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager 04

 

Is there anything better than a combo meal? Experience the joy of vibrating prostate stimulation and a longer hard-on with a cock ring. This wearable plug enhances erections while adding new sensations into the mix.

Anal Fantasy Collection - Ass-Gasm Cock Ring Vibrating Plug

Anal Fantasy Collection - Ass-Gasm Cock Ring Vibrating Plug