Deepthroating 101

Celebrate Steak & Blowjob Day in style with this deep and meaningful sex act. 

Forget the birth/resurrection of Christ, our favourite national holiday is one that celebrates steak and blowjobs. If you’re not familiar with this holiest of days, your sex life is about to get a glow-up. Launched in the US as a satirical response to Valentine’s Day, it’s basically a celebration of oral sex and grilled meat held every March, and we are here for it.

So how does one commemorate this special day? Well it’s simple enough. Cook a steak, get down on your knees and blow him like it’s his birthday. And if you’re hoping to make a really deep and meaningful impact on steak & blowjob day this year? We recommend you add deep-throat into the mix. Keep scrolling for the ultimate deep-throating 101 tips to celebrate Steak & Blowjob Day in style.

What is deep-throating?

For the uninitiated, deep-throat is an oral sex technique that involves engulfing his entire penis with your mouth so that it reaches the back of your throat. By sucking on his whole length you do risk triggering your gag reflex and/or choking on his shlong. But on the plus side, it’s nice and tight in there and if it gets him going it’s worth it, right?

Deep-throat is simple enough. You ram as much of his dick into your mouth as you can take before either he busts his nuts or you have to stop for a breath. That said, it does require a certain level of technique. If you can train your gag reflex so you don’t puke/choke it will be better for all parties involved. 

Warm and tight compression

Arguably the biggest perk of deep-throat is the compression element. It’s wet, it’s warm, it’s wild and it’s inviting inside your mouth. So smack your lips and open wide, as it’s time to get the deep-throat party started.

Why does deep-throating feel good?

Let’s be honest, penis-havers like to slip their dicks into any and every tight orifice, and who can blame them. However, oral sex provides a tight hole that can suck on demand, plus you can work magic with your tongue on his frenulum while you’re at it. And he gets to gaze lovingly into your eyes while slamming into your hungry mouth, what’s not to love?g

Encourages more spit production

Did you know that thrusting his manhood right down the back of your throat actually gets things moist? That’s right friends, deep-throat encourages your saliva reflex to kick in, making your blowjobs sloppier, slipperier and 100% sexier. And when he’s ready to climax, the deeper it is the easier it slips down.

Fantasy element

Let’s be honest, most of us watch porn and most porn-lovers like to push the envelope. There’s something about deep-throat that appeals to everyone’s fantasy imagination. Maybe he isn’t really hung like a trojan horse, and perhaps you don’t have the deep-throat skills of a porn star, but getting lost in the fantasy and giving it a try is half the fun, right?

Dominance play

We are all consenting adults and most of us enjoy a bit of slap and tickle every once in a while. Steak & Blowjob Day is the perfect annual holiday to indulge in a light BDSM session. And what could be more S&M than literally constricting your airways for sexual gratification? Lie down, take his entire length in your mouth and beg for mercy baby.

How to deep-throat

Relaxation

The first step to effective deep-throating is to relax. Nothing’s getting down that gullet if you feel stressed out and restricted, so light some candles, pour the wine and let nature take its course. Once you feel nice and relaxed you’ll have better control of your gag reflex, so you’ll be able to nudge that member into your mouth with far less resistance.

Communication

Do you want it? Does he like it? How’s tonight going to pan out? Before anyone sticks anything anywhere, you need to work out the parameters of your sex-plorations. But this needn’t feel like a job interview. Communication can be part of the foreplay, so whisper gently to your lover to establish what you both want to do this Steak & Blowjob Day and we guarantee this will oil the pistons and get you both turned on and ready for action.

Enthusiasm and eye contact

We’ll let you in on a little oral sex secret. It doesn’t really matter if you’re crap at giving blowjobs and can’t get his knob past your lips without gagging. The secret to great sex is all about enthusiasm, eye contact and a positive attitude. So show up, show willing and let your hands do the most of the hard work while licking the head of his penis and gazing sensually into his eyes. Will he notice you can’t get his penis to the back of your throat? Probably not, but he’ll also be super grateful to be getting a handjob with a few licks thrown into the mix.

Toys to replicate the feeling if you can't quite manage it

If your gag reflex needs practice or your partner’s penis is too damn big to fit into your gob (you lucky thing) then there is a workaround. Treat your other half to a penis sex toy this Steak & Blowjob Day and he’ll get to enjoy the sensation of deep throat without actually choking you out, so everybody wins.

This clever sex toy for men is both a romantic rose and a powerful penis sucking masturbation stroker with vibrating and thrusting action, all in one easy handheld shaft. Better yet, give it to your beloved this Steak & Blowjob Day and you get to dodge your deep-throat responsibilities for another year and save yourself from lockjaw. Win-win.

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If you’re new to the world of sucking sex toys, the Male Rose is super easy to get to grips with. It’s a pleasantly warm stroker designed to mimic the feel of authentic oral sex, just like a real blow job. But it comes with the added bonus of vibrating, rotating and thrusting in a way that no human orifice could ever deliver, giving him the ultimate blowjob and saving you the bother. Now all that’s missing is the grilled meat. Happy Steak & Blowjob Day to all who celebrate!