Dress Your Room for Seduction This Valentine's Day
You've purchased your gifts, done your 'everything' shave or wax, and you're ready to seduce your date this Valentine's Day…but have you neglected your bedroom set up?
Ambiance is the ultimate gift for your partner…deck your room out in sensual Valentine’s day decorations to seduce them from the moment they step foot inside.
This year, when you say, “Happy valentine’s day, my love” back it up with a scene that will take their breathe away. If you want to set the scene for romance, you’ll need to curate the naughty bedroom of your dream. Don’t worry - we’ve got you covered. Read our guide below for the and your room will be dresses to impressed in no time.
Why dress your bedroom for Valentine's day?
The art of erotic feng shui is nothing new. Most of us watched How to Build a Sex Room when it came out on Netflix and considered investing in some home bondage kits and other naughty bedroom decor and accessories to turn the heat up. But let’s be honest: while it would be sexy as hell to create your very own dungeon and whip your lover into submission in your basement every night, it’s not always practical – or romantic.
As the cost of living crisis wages on and rents soar, in reality, no one has the space or the cash flow to invest in serious bondage furniture for your home. And if you erect a leather spanking bench in your bedroom, it’s asking for an impromptu visit from the in-laws.
However, there are a few subtle interior design tricks that will transform your home into a sex room for seduction without breaking the bank this Valentine’s Day. And while we can’t promise that this will convince your partner to indulge in a full-blown S&M session, going the extra mile will definitely sex the scene for love and – most importantly – you will get laid.
Tips and ideas to dress your room with a sexy vibe
From atmospheric candles to sex wedges and even bed restraints, a few well-chosen accessories will transform your bedroom into a sensual boudoir to wow your beloved this Valentine’s Day.
Include BDSM and kink equipment
Yes, equipment will make for a sexy bedroom and count as sensual bedroom decor for Valentine’s Day decorations - especially for those who want something a little steamier than rose petals.
If you’re new to the world of restraints, you need to introduce ropes, straps, and even a pair of handcuffs into your playtime, and we have plenty of starter kits at budget-friendly prices. A spreader bar is also a great option for beginners and pros.
You may also want to add some fetish bedding into the mix to explore your kinky side. Plus it’s super easy to store in a drawer out of sight once you’ve had your fun.
Dressing the room with romantic (and multifunctional) sex pillows
Sex furniture is a must for a sexy bedroom since it means more comfortable sex for everyone involved. Pillows and wedges designed with your pleasure in mind can help get you in the mood and make your session longer.
SexToys.co.uk is an exclusive online retailer of Liberator products in the UK and the brand has raised the bar. Forget pain-play – Liberator stocks a range of ramps and mounts that will enable you to comfortably enjoy deeper, harder, longer and more intimate sex all night, and we are here for it.
Deck the room out in roses
Getting roses is lovely on Valentine’s Day, but don’t be afraid to get creative with what that means! These roses are the gifts that keep on giving if you catch our drift.
This trendy box of faux roses features a waterproof rose clit sucker as the star of the show
The One Rose
Speaking of rose clit suckers...if your gift recipient is more of a single rose than a bouquet kind of person, you can’t go wrong with this bestselling pick.
Sure, real rose petals are romantic, but cleaning up dead plant matter can ruin the mood. Instead, get a reusable alternative with this trail of roses. These melting petals are perfect for the bath.
Place a few of these rose drip candles around your bedroom for the ultimate vibe. Pro tip: they can also be used during wax play!
Create a candlelit, sensual massage corner
Did you know that certain aromas have aphrodisiac properties that will get you both in the mood? Plus we can all agree that candlelight is sensual as hell (and a bit more forgiving when you’re naked). While dim lighting can make for smoldering Valentine’s Day decorations and up your naughty bedroom decor skills, wax play and massage candles can make your playtime even hotter.
Get in the mood with pheromones
Massage Candle with Pheromones
This massage oil candle is scented with luxurious strawberries and champagne. It’s also infused with pheromones that will drive you and your partner wild for each other.
Turn them into dessert
If you want to lick your partner head to toe after you massage them, consider a flavoured massage oil. This cherry-flavoured one with a non-greasy hemp oil base is one of our bestsellers, but the mango version is also popular. Can't decide? Get a gift trio with multiple flavours.
Up your technique
Intensify intimacy by learning more erotic massage techniques. This Massage Seductions kit brings the spa to your home with 24 ways to massage your partner, as well as a massage candle and a warming heart massager.
Explore wax play
Japanese Drip Candles - 3 Pack
These Japanese drip candles set the mood and once your partner is warmed up, you can drip body-safe wax onto them until they’re writhing in ecstasy. This is best for folks experienced in wax play - otherwise, you may want to start off with a massage candle.
Play erotic games
Ease into foreplay
This travel-friendly dice kit can be used anywhere and is a small but powerful must-have for completing your sexy bedroom and making the perfect romantic weekend.
Play a dirty board game
Put the Monopoly away and take out the famous Intimacy game, which brings you closer to your lover by answering personal questions and performing erotic activities as you move around the game board (and each other’s bodies)
Intimacy the Sex Game for Any Couple
Lip service done right with an oral sex card game (H3)
This game by Kheper will show you all kinds of positions to get freaky in the next time you have oral sex - 50, to be exact! Add flavoured lube for an even steamier session.
Get more for less with a curated kit
Combine a Valentine’s day gift with the sexy bedroom stuff of their dreams by adding a Valentine’s day pleasure gift box into the mix.
This might look like a typical Valentine’s Day gift: a heart-shaped box of chocolates. But inside lies one of the unique Valentine’s Day gift ideas you could think of heart-themed nipple clamps, a multi-speed vibrator, a buzzing cock ring for couples, and a silicone butt plug.
The One Obsidian Play Collection
Perfect for the couple that’s into anal play, this kit contains thre sizes of anal plugs, a vibrating wand, a water-based lube and a toy cleaner for easy maintenance.
Spotsheets Sincerely Bundle
If one of you loves a good spanking, explore impact play with this faux leather bowtie BDSM kit that includes reusable pasties, a paddle, and a ball gag.
Happy Valentine's Day, lovers!
