Non-Realistic vs. Realistic Dildo: Which Suits You?
Dildos are one of our bestsellers and some of the most popular sex toys in the world. However, there are infinite kinds of dildos out there to choose from, and one of the biggest questions our shoppers have is: should I choose a realistic or non-realistic dildo? In this trusty guide, we’ll break down all the facts for pros and beginners alike to make the best decision for their needs and desires.
What is a realistic dildo?
Realistic dildos are designed to look like a penis. Sometimes they’re even modeled after porn stars.
It’s all in the details with a sex toy like this, which is made from a soft material and has veins and other details that look and feel like the real thing. With an ultra-realistic dildo, you won’t be able to tell the difference between the toy and the real thing!
That said, it’s important to acknowledge that some dildos are not as realistic as others. A dual-density dildo offers the most lifelike feeling by creating a softer exterior and a firm core, and there are even some squirting dildos that ‘ejaculate’ lube.
Just like a real penis, a realistic dildo comes in a variety of sizes, colours, and shapes. For those who want the phallic experience, this is the best option. Just close your eyes, slather on a healthy amount of lube, and you won’t even know the difference.
What is a non-realistic dildo?
Perhaps you’re not into penises, or maybe the idea of something a bit more abstract excites you. In that case, a non-phallic dildo might be the best option since it does not attempt to mimic the human form.
A non realistic dildo might be made of silicone but it can also be made of glass or metal. It might come in bright, vibrant colours or even glow-in-the-dark. This is the perfect opportunity to really get creative and get your hands on a dildo that looks like a piece of art!
The difference between a realistic vs. non-realistic dildo
The most realistic dildo choices will have a design that replicates all the veins, bumps, and curves of a real penis, including details on the head — some even have built-in testicles. For those who enjoy stimulation from texture and are having fantasies about penis-owning people, this is the best choice.
Non-realistic dildos, on the other hand, are less traditional. They’re ideal for people who enjoy penetration but prefer sex toys that don’t resemble an actual penis and can come in many materials and intricate designs. You can also find a hybrid with toys that have realistic veins or a dual-density material combined with otherworldly colours.
Unique factors to consider when making your decision
Material
A realistic dildo will often be made of body-safe silicone, whereas a non-realistic dildo will have a greater range of possibilities, including glass and metal for different sensations and temperature play. You can even buy an inflatable dildo if you’re looking for an adjustable model that saves on space and is discreet!
Shape and size
Do you want a shorter toy with a curve to easily reach the G-spot or P-spot? Or do you prefer something straighter and lengthier for deeper penetration? A tapered tip rather than a bulbous head will better access the A-spot. You can find both of these features in the realistic and non-realistic dildos.
Functionality
If you’re using a dildo during harness play and want to experience gender affirmation or take on masculine gender roles, a realistic model will be better. However, for two vulva owners who want a non-phallic dildo, an option that isn’t realistic might be preferable. For vulva owners, there are also double ended dildos for vulva owners who want simultaneous penetration.
Additionally, if you’re looking to use it mostly for solo play, it should have a suction cup base, allowing you to ride hands-free on different surfaces. Consider the uses during partnered or solo play and make your decision accordingly.
Texture and add-ons
Textures aren’t just for realistic, veiny dildos. You can find plenty of non-realistic options with textures like ridges, curves, nubs, and ribbing. Many fantasy dildos or creature dildos have an alien aesthetic that offers a range of exotic textures to enjoy. Additionally, some dildos (phallic and non-phallic) have the added feature of vibrating, thrusting, or rotating, which can add sensation.
Aesthetic
Do you prefer a realistic look with a certain skin tone? Or do you want something vibrant that resembles a piece of art? Perhaps you want to indulge in fantasies with a creature cock that offers an out-of-this-world experience? Take your pick!
Realistic or not, use lots of lube
No matter the type of dildo you decide on, using lube will often make the experience more pleasurable and comfortable - especially if you’re opting for a textured toy. This will reduce friction and make for a smoother ride.
The best realistic dildos
Whether you’re a beginner or a dildo pro, this ultra-affordable, waterproof option from The One is a high-quality shortcut to pleasure. It features impressive details and a subtle curve to stimulate you and hit the perfect spot.
Who doesn’t want to sleep with a porn star? Sextoys.co.uk has plenty of toys molded directly from the bodies of adult performers - along with this beautifully curved realistic black dildo made from dual-density material, we also have a gloriously veiny Shane Diesel dildo.
Neo Elite - 7.5" Silicone Dual Density Dildo with Balls
While this dildo has a realistic texture, material, and shape, complete with testicles, it comes in bright colours, offering the best of both worlds. It also has a suction base for sexy solo sessions.
Big Shot Vibrating Squirting Dong
The best non realistic dildos
Galactic Cock Alien Creature Glow-in-the-Dark Silicone Dildo
If you’ve ever dreamt of getting dicked down by an alien, you’ll definitely want to check out our Fantasy Creatures section, which contains tons of creative choices like this glow-in-the-dark, rainbow-hued creature cock with a moan-inducing bulge in the middle.
Is this a dildo or a piece of art? The Chrystalino Planets glass dildo targets the G-spot and is beaded for a unique aesthetic and sensation that can be enhanced even further by heating up or cooling down for temperature play.
This super flexible double dildo is great for double penetration or partners looking to explore anal play or vaginal penetration at the same time. It has a beginner-friendly girth and is very non-phallic in nature. Bend it as much as you’d like!
Another superb option for temperature play is this twisted glass dildo, which has a braided texture that’s the ultimate turn-on. Warm it up and slowly twist it inside for maximum pleasure. It’ll also look stunning on any nightstand.
A gender-neutral option that also offers clitoral and perineum vibration, this purple dildo doubles as a vibrator. The shaft thumps and thrusts while the Stingray feeler vibrates. It’s even waterproof and remote-controlled for water play or partnered pleasure!
Get the nonrealistic or realistic dildo of your dreams and browse our selection now!
