The Best Sex Toys for Couples to Turn Up the Heat

What better way to get closer to your partner than to experience the joy of a shared orgasm? Give the gift of mutual pleasure to your lover with the best sex toys for couples. Whether it’s their birthday or Valentine’s Day, there’s no wrong time to deepen your bond with a gift like this. Cook them their favorite meal or order in and slip them one of these must-have couples vibrators for dessert. 

What are sex toys for couples?

From strokers and prostate plugs to strap-ons and wearable vibrators you place inside during sex, there’s no shortage of ways to use couples' sex toys. These pleasure products can be used during foreplay or penetrative sex, depending on what you’re looking for. 

Couples Sex toys for penises 

Penis rings: Rings can make an erection last longer - many vibrating penis rings provide stimulation to a partner with a vulva, especially on the clitoris. 
Strokers: Strokers can be used to enhance a blowjob, handjob, or mutual masturbation during foreplay - they can even be used during penetration.
Strap-ons: Perfect for heterosexual couples, strap-ons let you explore pegging

Couples Sex toys for vulvas 

Wearable vibrators: This is a type of hands-free vibrator that has a C or U shape. It can be worn during penetration, and the vibrations stimulate a penis owner too.  Some of these are even app-controlled, making them ideal for long-distance play. 
Finger vibrators: You or your partner can slip on one of these ergonomic vibes on your hand to stimulate the vulva.
Panty vibrators: If you’re looking to get off in public (or just from the other room) slip one of these vibrators in your panties while your lover controls them from afar. 

Gender-neutral toys for couples

Lots of vibrators can be used on erogenous zones like the nipples and perineum. Butt plugs are also one of the best sex toys for couples looking to spice things up with anal play. For people with vulvas, wearing them can be a way to ease into double penetration.

How to use couples' sex toys

Before using any of these must-have toys for couples, we suggest using lots of lube for a smoother ride. 

Not sure how to use a wearable vibrator? Insert one end during penetrative sex while the other rests on top of the clitoris, providing a decadent blended orgasm. Hello, dual stimulation! You can also use a butterfly vibrator, which stays firmly in place with straps and offers a non-penetrative option.

To use a cock ring, add lube and slide the ring on the penis until it’s resting at the base of the shaft. If it vibrates, you can place the vibrating part on top to stimulate a partner’s clitoris or turn it around to pleasure the testicles. Finger vibrators can be slid on like a ring or are shaped to fit between the index and middle finger. 

What are the best sex toys for couples? 

Screaming O Disposable Vibrating Cock Ring

This ultra-affordable disposable ring is the perfect way for beginners to experiment during a spicy date night. Complete with a powerful micro vibration motor to stimulate the vulva, it can help couples orgasm together. Made from a super stretchy material and complete with
“pleasure knobs” that place vibrations right where you want it. No cleaning required - just toss it. 

Romp Juke Cock Ring

If you want a ring that isn’t disposable but still won’t break the bank, consider this bestselling vibrating cocktail ring by ROMP. Coated in a valvety silicone, this stretchy toy operates quietly but provides four rumkbly viration levels and six speeds to switch things up. 

We-Vibe Sync Lite

We-Vibe offers some of the best wearable vibrators on the market, letting you and your partner connect like never before by climaxing at the same time. It’s completely adjustable, has 10 different modes, and can be comfortably inserted during intercourse or from a distance, thanks to Bluetooth capabilities. 

Satisfyer Double Whale

Ready for hands-free play to bring you closer than ever? This toy is designed to hit the G-spot and the clit at the same time. The c-shaped Double Whale is waterproof, letting you get intimate in the bath, shower, or pool for a shared climax you won’t forget. 

The One Open Ended Stroker

This open-ended stroker from The One can be combined with flavored lube during foreplay for a memorable session with your partner. Simply switch the stroker on, and the soft and squishy TPE material will start to vibrate with a total of six speeds and patterns. It also has a discreet appearance so that you can slip it through TSA and take it on vacation

Original Venus Butterfly

If the idea of a wearable sex toy turns you on, but you don't want something that penetrates, consider a butterfly vibrator. Fluttering antennae vibrate on the clit, and this toy can even fit inside panties, making it even more versatile for public teasing. Adjustable straps keep it in place so you get the hands-free orgasms you deserve. 

Yumi Finger Vibrator

Slip the Yumi between your fingers for effortless control and rub it on any erogenous zone. The combination of butter silicone and a nub tip allows you to tease pleasure spots like the nipples, perineum, clit, or testicles. 

My Secret Screaming O Vibrating Panties

This panty vibrator is the perfect way to explore power play thanks to the included remote control disguised as an ordinary finger ring. It also comes with a pair of seductive lacy panties, making the perfect gift. Put the power of pleasure into your partner’s hands with this toy that teases and pleases.

Bikini Strap On and Silicone Dildo Set

Explore pegging and strap on play with this sultry bikini option. It comes in at a beginner-friendly size (and price point) and is machine washable, making cleanup a breeze. Ideal for vulva owners looking to experiment with some role reversal, you won’t regret this intro to anal play.