Learn how to use clitoral suction toys for a mind-blowing orgasm

Even since the infamous Rose went viral, many people are wondering: is the hype around clit suckers real? Spoiler alert: it’s a resounding yes, yes, yessss! Here’s why.

What is a suction toy?  

A clit suction toy is a sex toy that mimics the sensation of oral sex. Consider this toy your backstage pass to a symphony of pleasure. By using air pressure, it has a different sensation from a regular clitoral vibrator.

While vibrators tend to stimulate the tip of the clit, these toys surround the entire clitoris, which feels like a mouth. The clitoris is much larger than the tip, and suction sex toys wake up all the nerves on the internal bits to build pleasure.

For vulva owners who love getting head, it’s the holy grail of clitoral stimulation. Not everyone is skilled at giving oral sex, but these toys guarantee orgasms every time. They offer a soul-sucking (in a good way) experience that will lead you to toe-curling bliss. 

Most vulva owners need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. These alternatives to vibrators have taken over the sex toy world and provide a feeling like nothing else.

How does a clitoral suction toy work? 

The most impressive thing about a suction toy is that it provides clitoral stimulation without actually touching the clit.
Is it sorcery? Nope, it's just the magic of air pressure technology.

These toys use airflow rather than vibrations. The silicone mouth envelops the clitoris, creating airflow that adds pressure around the clitoris. 

The pressure can simulate swirling sensations that feel like a mouth sucking or a tongue licking. It boosts blood flow to the area and increases sensitivity, gradually taking your body to O-town. Some of these toys even have vibration settings, combining suction with vibration or pulsation for a mind-blowing result. 

The best clitoral suction toys

The one, the only, the Rose. This ultra-discreet toy might look like a sweet floral accessory, but it’s a cheeky shortcut to a toe-curling orgasm. At this price point, you might as well invest in a whole bouquet!

The One Rose 50% Off

A level up from your average suction toy, this clitoral pump combines sucking and vibration for a sucking vibrator that’s sure to get you hot and bothered.

Fetish Fantasy Series Vibrating Clit Super Suck-Her

Using airwave pressure technology, the longer handle and single button control on this popular, under £20 toy make it simple to use and surrender to pleasure. 

Loving Joy 10 Function Clitoral Suction Vibrator

Give up control with the moan-inducing rabbit vibrator, which combines suction with g-spot stimulation and finishes you off with the turbo mode for an explosive climax.

Shegasm Suction Come Hither Rabbit

How to use a suction toy for clitoral stimulation 

Clear your mind and warm up with foreplay 

When you receive oral sex, you might stress out about how you look or smell. But the beauty of a clit sucker toy is that it will never judge you or rush the process.

Give in to pleasure and empty your mind. Dim the lighting, put on your favorite playlist, and get in the mood. While solo play is incredible, you can also have your partner give you a sensual massage.

These toys work best when the clitoris is erect. Hence, it’s ideal if you’re already a bit horny before you start playing with them. Warm yourself up and take your time.

Play over the panties 

Never used a clit sucker before? While it will rock your world, this powerful toy can come on a bit strong. For first-time users, this is important to know.

Before using this toy on bare skin, try it on your clitoral hood over your panties first. This will help you understand the nature of the sensation. You can even have partnered sex with this pleasure product over your panties. This is a kinky way to experiment with teasing and have you begging your partner for more. 

Play with other erogenous zones 

You can do this during foreplay or if you don’t have a vulva. Or if you want to experience the beauty of suction in other areas. Placing clit suckers on the nipples can feel like a partner gently caressing you with their tongue. You may even find yourself on the brink of a nipplegasm!

Lube up 

Lube is necessary to create the gentle vacuum seal a clit suction toy requires, so add a drop or two before playing. Lube can help bring that wet, luscious feeling of oral sex. Don’t be afraid to get a little slippery for a more realistic experience. Remember to use water-based lube with silicone toys. 

Add an arousal gel 

Using something like the Amazing Encounter Clitoral Gel can intensify pleasure. These gels double as a lubricant while stimulating your naughty bits as they increase blood flow. The more erect and sensitive the clitoris is, the more amazing a clitoral suction toy will feel. 

Find the right placement 

Center your clit within the circular hole of the sucker before turning it on to ensure you find the right position. Once you turn it on, you can play with placement. Some people prefer to put it on an angle, as one side of their clitoris is more sensitive than the other 

Explore settings 

Things can get intense with a suction toy. Start slow before heating things up with higher settings, patterns, or speeds. Once you can tolerate more intense sensations, explore and find your favorite settings! Some toys even have memory modes, so you don’t need to remember what you tried last.

Experiment - it's fun! It can help you get to know your body better. It also will help you communicate what feels good when you’re receiving oral sex from a person.

Make a splash in the tub 

Many clit suckers are waterproof and can provide a different sensation in the bath that can be just as enjoyable. You can add on other toys, finger yourself, and even invite a partner to make things even spicier. 

Who can use clitoral suckers? 

Not just for vulva owners 

Although clitoral is in the name, clit suckers aren’t just for the clit, even though they have been designed with vulva owners in mind. You can use this unique, high-tech toy on different erogenous zones, no matter who you are. This makes it a hot add-on for playtime with any gender or sexuality.

Perfect for those experiencing painful sex or sensitivity 

Dealing with vaginismus, menopause, endometriosis, or post-partum struggles? Vaginal penetration can be painful for these people, and even some vibrators can be too intense. Clit suckers give you more control and let you enjoy the feeling of oral sex without the pressure of receiving it from a person.

They’re a fabulous and beginner-friendly alternative to internal vibrators. Their gentle sensations will help you explore your body and desires so your sexual confidence is off the charts.

Suction toys vs traditional vibrators 

Non-contact pleasure 

Indirect stimulation can be such a sensual turn-on. It’s not always better than a regular vibrator. However, it can give a different feeling. This feeling may not numb your clitoris.

And no, it doesn’t feel like a vacuum that will aggressively suck your clit off. Think soft pulsations like you’d get from a shower head or a fluttering massage. This can allow you to have rolling orgasms back to back. Who doesn’t want that gift that keeps on giving?

While you can include vibration in the mix, think of suction toys as a recipe that begins with pulses of air. Then, you can spice things up with powerful vibrations, pulsing patterns, or different speeds.

Less intense for sensitive bodies 

Some people find that vibrators (especially ones with strong motors) are too intense for their bodies. Clitoral stimulation suction toys can have a softer touch due to their sonic pulses. If other vibrators typically overstimulate you, these toys are a great option.

Suction toys are on the moderate side of the intensity scale and can be made even gentler if you use them over a barrier like panties.

Shh..nobody will know

Many clit suckers (especially ones like the Rose) don’t look like a sex toy at all. They’re sneaky little buggers that you can keep out on your nightstand without raising suspicions. Some look like beauty devices, while others look like pebbles or figurines. 

Can you use clit suckers with internal toys? 

Dildos and beyond 

Clit suckers can be used with G-spot vibrators, dildos, and essentially any internal toy. In fact, we think they make the tastiest combo meal ever.

You can use one hand to penetrate with the toys or your fingers while using the other hand to hold the clit sucker in place. 
With longer clit suckers that have a handle, you can hold the toy between your thighs.

This lets you use your hands to insert the dildo or vibrator. Stimulating both the clitoris and the G-spot can lead to the ultimate blended orgasm. 

Sex toys that combine penetration and sucking 

Some clit suckers combine suction with an internal component for dual stimulation. These toys often hold themselves in place, allowing for a hands-free orgasm or letting you thrust if you want more control.

The dildo or g-spot vibrator is inserted to drive your g-spot wild while the sucker bit goes to town on your clit. Cancel all your plans because you’ll want to stay in bed with these toys all day long. 

How to use a clit suction toy with a partner 

There are endless possibilities in how to use a clit suction toy with your partner. They can start by using it on your nipples before moving down to kiss and caress every inch of your body while you hold the toy in place on your body. Or perhaps they can hold the toy on you to simulate oral sex while kissing your thighs and fingering you. 

A clitoral sucker can even be used during sex. Models like the We-Vibe Melt are slim enough to be placed between partners during the missionary position for hands-free fun, but others can be manually held in any sex position. 

Mutual masturbation 

There’s nothing hotter than touching yourselves next to each other and watching the other person writhe and moan in pleasure during a mutual masturbation sesh.

For a low-maintenance way to satisfy each other (and indulge your inner voyeur), get yourself off with this toy while your partner uses a stroker or vibrator, finishing in an orgasm with some steamy eye contact. 

How to clean a clitoral suction toy 

Hygiene is sexy, and knowing how to clean sex toys properly is vital. Since these toys have motors, they shouldn’t be placed in a dishwasher. Unless they’re marked as waterproof, don’t soak them in water for an extended period of time.

Clit suckers can have more nooks and crannies than your average dildo or vibrator. Wash them normally with antibacterial soap and water, getting into all the crevices. You can use a sex toy cleaner instead, but we do recommend warm water and soap once in a while for a more thorough clean.

Since there is a hole in these toys, always dry them face down post-wash on a paper towel or washcloth to drain them, and let them air dry. Consider storing in a cloth bag between uses to keep things extra clean. 

Are orgasms different with a clit sucking vibrator? 

Figuring out how to reach orgasm with this sex toy will vary from person to person. There’s no set formula on how to orgasm, but exploring settings and using lots of lube will absolutely help.

Some people say that the type of orgasms you get feels different. It’s more targeted but not painfully intense so that the orgasm can last longer. The route to orgasm is often much quicker, too. 

Think of it as a highway to climax rather than taking the slower back roads. Many people say that clit suction toys can lead to an orgasm in just a minute or two, while others are taken over the edge in mere seconds. For those times when you need a quickie and want to get there fast, using one of these is a no-brainer.

Consider starting on a lower setting before ramping up the intensity. You can also explore edging to take yourself to the brink and lead to a more satisfying final release. The best way to reach orgasm with any sex toy is to listen to your body and always stop if you feel discomfort. 

Can you squirt from using a clit sucker? 

Many people don’t realize they’re squirters until they play with clitoral suction toys! That said, some people squirt from deep g-spot stimulation instead. If you’re finding that you’re not squirting from using a clit sucker alone, you may want to combine it with fingering or a g-spot vibrator to see what gets you there. 

What’s the difference between a clit stimulator and a clit pump? 

While a clitoral stimulator suction toy uses air circulation, clitoral pumps take away air to create a strong vacuum. The suction is way more intense than a pump. Clit pumps increase blood flow and consist of a hand pump with a cylindrical cup. 

This cup is placed over the clitoris as you use your hand pump to “engorge” the clit and boost sensitivity. Many people use clitoral pumps to reach stronger or quicker orgasms. Clit pumping may also make the pelvic floor stronger.

Another unexpected benefit is that these intimacy devices can be used for gender affirmation. They can boost temporary genital growth. This makes the clitoris look more pronounced and penis-like, which can be an empowering experience. 

Try a clit sucker toy first before moving on to a clit pump. This will get users used to the suction sensation and allow them to feel more in control. 

Clit suction toy safety tips 

Although it’s rare to experience any negative side effects from clit suckers, there are a couple of safety tips to keep in mind. People may experience pain and blood blisters when these toys are used improperly. This can often result from not using lube and can result from unwanted friction. It would help if you remembered to use the right lubricant to protect the toy's quality (i.e, never use silicone lube with silicone toys.)

Clit pumps are more worrisome than regular suction toys and can cause blood vessel or tissue damage, so be careful and don’t over-pump.

If you don’t like suction, try a tongue vibrator 

If suction isn’t your thing, but you want the glorious sensations associated with toys that mimic oral sex, consider a tongue vibrator.

Unlike air-pulse vibrators, these toys often have a flickering silicone tongue that caresses and flicks your clit until your eyes roll back in your head. For vulva owners who prefer the feeling of licking as opposed to full-on sucking, this is the perfect intro to oral sex toys. 

Experience the power of air pulsations with the sexiest suction toys on the market.